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  • Watchalife 1:13 am on March 6, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    谁动了我的女人?——处女情结为何大反弹

    文/【陈岚】 笔名【深海水妖】

    “女孩的贞操是给婆家最好的陪嫁”——上海一个老阿姨一句话砸起千层浪,之后有N个媒体约我写稿,希望能反驳一下这位阿姨的雷人观点。我颇踌躇:因为它根本不是一个观点而是一个文革式的口号,对这样“绝对真理腔”的句式,通常只能以另一句“绝对真理腔”予以粗暴击碎,讲道理毫无意义,因为所有会欣赏这句话的人,皆是出于一种情绪,而非在寻求解释。

    作为一个女性主义观察者,我想指出两个规律:中国男性的处女情结如同股市——在崩盘之前,总是会狂飙突进地猛然高涨一下的,当股市里90%的人都在亏钱的时候,对红盘渴望会把每一个股民变成红眼狼。在两性问题上,被高房价、低福利挤兑在逼仄空间里的男性,确然个个都欲火中烧+怒火中烧。

    女性和男性之间的关系,本应是独立的人和人,但因为生理之特殊性,女性在婚恋和生育问题上,拥有不可替代的资源,简单地说,是卖方市场。最天然的婚恋关系应该是这样的:瞪羚般敏捷的少年与白桦树样俊秀的少女,风一样跑过草原,钻进丛林,或者又如古希腊的雕塑作品呈现的,男性强壮优美,女性丰满从容,身体的曲线如水波一样流荡。

    当然啦,女人的需求在进化勾兑了其他元素,比如财富、文化、智慧、社会阶层——这些很复杂。但总得来说,两性本身最根本的需求还是起最本质的掌控作用的,“潘驴邓小闲”五个追女必胜的要素中,身体因素、情感因素占了成功要素的百分之八十。在正常情况下,女性的繁衍本能会指示她们寻找身材、智慧、年龄、健康皆处于美好状态的配偶,财富阶层啥的,都是非决定性因素——在什么情况下,自然法则会被打破和倾斜?

    社会的生存法则被打破时。

    三年饥饿期间,一个伙夫可以用一个馒头睡一个黄花闺女,一个队长半个馍馍可以搞一个京剧名伶。

    当下的国人是解决了饥饿问题了,但生存之道,仍然是在颠覆状态。生不起、死不起、住不起、病不起。不要怪女人势利,女人也是人,女人和男人一样要面对这个世界的压力,生了娃住哪儿?别人的娃娃生下来喝进口奶,自己的娃娃喝皮革奶吗?女人也有老人要养,都是贫二代的话,两家合起来,四个没有医疗保险的老人要养,一个月的薪水买不起半平米的房,这样的生活,有几个女人看到了不打寒战?有几个男人看了之后不手心冒汗?

    勿在这里给我讲XXX升职记,如果个人奋斗成功能成为这个社会的常态,那些励志书也不会畅销了。个人奋斗能成功?在中国这个人情社会大家庭里,对于平民子弟的机会有多么稀罕,大家心里都十分清楚——人人恨爹不成刚——励志啥的,也只好拿着做做梦。

    女人比男人幸运,一个有姿色才情的女人可以靠性别优势,博取一些改变命运的机会。运气好的,能透过婚姻完成资产重组,分享一些社会垄断资源,运气不好的,只好做小三、小四、小五,运气再不好的,做妓。

    女人比男人不幸,因为无论多么物质的女人,爱情都是她们内心的本能。她们在出卖自己时,首先要杀死自己一次。

    男人恨女人不贞,是恨那些被财富、地位、权势拐跑了的女人。男人恨女人,尤其是那些用身体换了资源后再跑回来跟自己要婚姻要保障的女人。其实男人倒并不恨妓女也不恨荡女,你看他们都喜欢苍井空,苍井空明码标价,真诚,他们也喜欢木子美,因为木子美不谈钱,真实。

     

    身为男人,一生都在捍卫自己的女人,被别的雄性挑衅、侵略是正常的,但最让人憎恶的挑衅是不公平竞争,大家如果都是丛林法则,拼身体拼速度拼智慧——但当下中国的竞争,流行的是拼爹。

    处女情结是个非常愚蠢的情结,女人有独立的身体自主权,这些早已经是陈词滥调,无论非主流和主流话语渠道都在重复这些话,所以根本不必重复——近年来中国男性的处女情结重新高涨——很大程度是因为太多的男人无力捍卫自己的领地,太多的男人,戴够了绿帽子,而同时又有一小撮的男人,不干正经事,专门以掠夺和占有更多的女性为荣。

     

    某些男人总有一个幻觉:第一个和某女性发生性关系,就可以实现某种意义上的永久占领。这个幻觉是男性文化制造的,之所以说它是幻觉,是因为没有任何人可以永久地占领任何人,人是这个世界上最善变也是最活跃的元素,一个社会将人工具化时,处于食物链顶端的人就会视底层的人为工具,工具化的、物化的人才是可以被永久占有的。如果一个社会在制造工具,那么,就永远有男人会幻想透过某一形式某一仪式,永久性地占有某一个人。这就是为什么在一个自由的社会里,男人对于处女的渴求会消退成一种可有可无的性幻想,而在我们这个社会里,会是一个简直跨过不去的门槛。

    在处女问题上,就是因为当下太多有钱人和有权人,梦想透过占有一个女性的初夜,来满足自己的占有梦,同时让他们的满足的部分不仅仅是对这个女性本身的占有,更重要的是自己在性资源上傲视群伦的心理满足:你们的女人都是我玩过的!有一个网友说:“这个世界上会注重贞操的只有皇帝和太监。”然也,皇帝想通过占有最多的女性初夜来证明自己的权力,太监则因为自己搞不到就永远处于焦渴状态,如果这个世界的结构分成了阴阳两界,一部分男人在当皇帝,另一部分想当而不得,那么对于女性贞操的追求就永远不会结束。

    身为贫二代,没有财富和权力的力量去对抗这样的入侵,在社会反映中,呈现出对“贞洁”渴求的反弹呼声,是一个自然而然的过程。

    男人也好、女人也好,被生存的压力挤兑在一个狭小的地铁车厢里。每一个人都为自己酸痛的膝盖、脆弱的肩膀、被蹂躏的身体和支离破碎的尊严在痛苦地呼吸。即便他们不想互相撕咬,外力也迫使他们把对方残酷地挤成沙丁鱼干。男人充满戾气,女人充满怨气。孩子则在哭泣。

    我想起庞德的那首诗:人群中那些面孔的闪现  黑黝黝湿漉漉枝条上的花瓣 。

    我又想起老舍在随笔里写过,贫苦人家的女儿,略有姿色的,就如野地里的花儿一样,稍微有些颜色奇异,就被挑了出来,担在肩上,货于花市。

    谁是凝视着我们这些沙丁鱼的眼睛?谁在挑选那些一闪而过的花瓣?

    对于男性的建议是:你若捍卫不了自己的其他权利,徒然在性权利上找女人的茬,实在是不够勇敢。正如鲁迅所说,国人惯于向最弱者发泄痛苦和愤怒。

    对于女性的建议是:物质不是你背叛自我的借口,如果你没有自我,被人轻亵是很合理的回报。

    这就是我对所有的贞操论的回复。

     

     
  • Watchalife 6:31 am on February 21, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    IELTS Oral Test 

    口语第一部分的变化,革新会更多体现在喜好与个人习惯的问题上,比如说喜不喜欢读书啊,去不去博物馆啊,喜不喜欢购物啊,有很多内容还是2010年末的,也会出现一些新的话题。但是学习、工作还有家乡这些个“四季常青”的场景话题肯定是会考到的,所以烤鸭们应该把这些场景都好好练熟!对于那些会创新的喜好和个人习惯题,则可以用咱们雅思VIP课上所讲的方法来应对,应该难度都不大!

    口语第二部分,则是每一场考试的热门,也是最有可能发生变化的地方。一些已经考了无数次的老题也许会退出历史舞台,或者说不再那么高频地出现,比如modern building、traditional story、a wild animal等等。而新题的出题趋势,则是有可能是旧题翻新,也就是在旧题的基础上进行一些改动变成新题,比如也许会出现photo这样和art沾边的题目。或者是借用第一部分的话题,改编成第二部分的题目。也有可能出现一些格外冷门的题目,像之前就出现过traffic jam这样的题目。

    应该怎么来应对呢?其实,不管题目怎么变化,我们都会发现,这些题目逃不出人、物、地点、事件这四类。所以在每一类里面都总结出来一些可以经常用到的素材,那么即使面对新题,脑子里也应该能够想到借用之前的素材来说。而十二月份一直在考的题目也一定要准备!

    Pat的2011年1月口语预测

    口语Part 1在1月可能出现的题(《十天口语》Day 2 & Day 7)

    ☆ Do you often visit museums?

    ☆ Do you think museums are important to our lives? (Day 7)

    ☆ What’re your favorite kinds of films?

    ☆Do you prefer to watch movies at home or in a cinema? Why? (Day 7)

    ☆ What’s your favorite color? Are there any special meanings to colors? (http://www.princetonol.com/groups/iad/lessons/middle/color2.htm)

    ☆ What’re your favorite leisure activities?

    ☆ What sports did you play when you were a child? What were the differences between sports played by boys and sports played by girls?

    ☆ Do you think air travel is important to us? (It sure is. It’s convenient, comfortable and … fun. Some people are concerned about its safety but according to statistics air travel is actually safer than car rides.)

    What do you collect? (Day 7)

    Where do young people meet new people these days?

    ☆ What will your hometown be like in the future?

    ☆ Do you like shopping?

    ☆ Do you prefer big stores or small ones?

    ☆ Is there anything that you dislike about shopping?

    Do you like dancing? Have you learned how to dance? Why do so many young people like dancing today?

    What’s your favorite time of the day?

    How many languages can you speak?

    ☆Do you like traveling? Where did you travel to in your latest trip? How long was the longest trip you took?

    What’re the advantages of traveling by air?

    Why are mobile phones important to our lives?

    Do you wear a watch? What can your watch do for you? (Well,it helps me keep track of time./ Punctuality is a quality most people appreciate. My wrist watch really helps me be punctual…) (Whenever I need to know what time it is, I just check my laptop or mobile phone… and I tend to believe I’m not alone in doing this. It seems like not so many people wear a watch today…)

    ☆ What’s your favorite type of clothing? Will you still wear this kind of clothing when you get older? (http://www.fuddleduds.com/)

    Have your neighbors help you with anything? Do you prefer to have old people or young people as your neighbors?

    How many hours do you spend on watching TV every day? What’re your favorite shows?

    What do you collect? Why do you collect them?

    What did you do on your first day at school?

    ☆ Did you like reading books when you were little? What were your favorite kind of books? What kind of books do you like these days?

    ☆ What’s your favorite food?

    Do you prefer to have meals at home or eat out?

    How often do you eat out?

    Who does the cooking in your family? Have you ever learned how to cook? Do you like cooking?

    Do you like home-cooked food?

    Do you think all family members should learn how to cook? (I guess so. Otherwise when parents are away the kids can only rely on junk food like burgers or French fries. Cooking abilities give them more self-sufficiency…)

    What’s your favorite kind of weather? Do you like places with four seasons or has the same weather all year round?

    What’re your favorite flowers? Do you think flowers are important to Chinese? Do Chinese give friends flowers on festivals? Do you prefer to have flowers or vegetables in gardens or at home?

    What’s your favorite magazine? Is it an English magazine?

    Do you think fashions are important?

    What’s your favorite subject at school? Can you tell me something about it?

    ☆ Do you think people who major in your field can find a job easily when they graduate?

    What do you do on the Internet?

    Are traffic jams bad in your city?

    ☆ What did you do on last weekend?

    ☆ Is your city good for young people? Is it good for elderly people?

    What’re your favorite kinds of fruit and vegetables? (stuff like oranges and tomatoes, coz they’re pretty juicy and …they look cute, … mouthwatering!)

    ☆What’re your favorite kinds of music? Do you think children should learn how to play musical instruments?(p96)☆ What sports do you play at school? What’re your favorite sports? / What do you do to improve your fitness?

    Is swimming popular in China? Why? Do you have swimming classes at school? (p178)

    Do you prefer to use emails or letters?

    Who do you send emails to?

    Do you think telephones are important to our lives?

    How do you communicate with friends? How do young people communicate with elderly people?

    Do you think gardens and parks are important to a city?

    Do you live in a house or an apartment/flat? Which room do you like best? Is there anything hanging on the wall? How do you decorate your house / flat? How many people live in your house/apartment? Is the rent expensive? If you have enough money, will you buy a house?

    What type of transportation do you usually take?

    Do you like watching TV?

    How was your child routine different from your daily routine now?

    ☆Do you like advertisements? (Day 8: D:favorite ad) ☆Why do we need ads? ☆What are the differences between ads in different countries?

    Do you often go out with your friends or just invite them over to your place? What do you do together?

    Do you think holidays are important to our lives? (Absolutely! Holidays are like … when we can get away from our daily grind and have some “time out”, you know… when we check out fun spots, hang out with friends and play sports without having to constantly worry about getting our work done. They are just so cool…)

    Do you have a driver’s license? ( Yup, I got one quite a whole ago coz these days a driver’s license is really essential for getting a job. / Nope, coz the traffic in my city is so heavy and messy. I’m afraid of driving.)

    Do you think biking is safe? ( Basically, it is because most Chinese are pretty skilled bikers, you know. But… these days there’re more cars in cities so yes sometimes biking can be risky, especially at night…)

    Do you like watching TV? How long do you spent on that each day?

    Do you prefer to study alone or to study with other students? / Do you prefer team work or working alone? (Team work is more efficient and can really be more effective as well. But when I work alone it seems like I tend to be more focused. So I guess it just depends on what kind of work it is and what kind of people I work with :D )

    How do people in your country celebrate birthday?

    Do you like painting and drawing? Do you think painting skills are important to kids?

    ☆ Do you like parties / partying? Do you like family parties or parties thrown by friends?

    ☆ What do you usually do during holidays? And what you don’t do during holidays?

    What’s your favorite leisure activity?

    Do you prefer to type things or to write things on paper? (Well, most of the time I just type things, that’s for sure. Coz it’s much faster and I can save what I type and edit it later on. And most importantly, I can just cut and paste everything…)

    What’s your favorite time of a day? ( Well, I feel great in the morning coz after a good night’s sleep I feel refreshed and invigorated and definitely do things better.)

    What kinds of tools or instruments you use at school? (things like PCs, test tubes, projectors and digital recorders…)

    Are there any sports facilities on your campus? (There are tons of them. Like stadiums, gyms, soccer fields, tennis courts and swimming pools.)

    What kinds of facilities are there in your community? (We’ve got a wide variety of facilities, like parking lots ,you know, places where you park your car, gyms, clinics, gardens, kids’ playgrounds, convenience stores…)

    Why do we play music on festivals?

    Which country do you plan to go to?

    Do you often go to museums?

    What kinds of gifts do you give your friends?

    How do you get news?

    Do you like visiting art galleries?

    How should children improve their handwriting? (They can imitate nice examples of handwriting before developing their own style. And of course they should practice more and try not to type everything…)

     

    Part 2 : 1月可能出现的卡片题,请勇于合并答案。

     

    自然界

    ☆ Describe a walk you took with a friend. (Day 8: C)

    ☆ Describe things you can do to help improve the environment.

    Describe a place that has a lot of water / a like or a river (Day 8:C)

    Describe a tourist spot.(natural or man-made)

    Describe a place that has been polluted / a trip that was not as good as you planned.(Day 8:C)

    ☆Describe your favorite wild animal. (Day 8: C)

    Describe your favorite season.

     

    城市与建筑

    ☆ Describe a place that helped you learn about the past.(p164,p165,p177老建筑)

    ☆ Describe a modern building. (可以和下面三个题中的一个合并在一起准备)

    ☆ Describe a hotel.

    ☆ Describe a place where there is a lot of noise.

    ☆ Describe an interesting building.

    ☆ Describe a shopping mall. (Day 8:A)

    Describe a library. (Day 8:A)

    Describe a museum or an art gallery (Day 10)

    Describe a long-distance trip.

    ☆ Describe a school you studied at before. (Day 7)

    Describe an architect. (这个网站是建筑师大全http://architecture.about.com/od/architectsaz/Great_Architects_AZ.htm)

    ☆Describe a historical place in your hometown.

    Describe what you did on last weekend.

    Describe your favorite part of your city/hometown.(Day 8: A)/ a popular part of your hometown.

    Describe a long journey.

    (第三部分可能问到:What are the differences between traveling alone and traveling with others?)

    Describe a good way to improve your health.(第三部分可能问到:

    What should schools do to help children improve their health? P.E. class, gyms, less homework, more leisure time…

    Do you think ads play important roles in improving public health? Not really coz there’s soooooooo much fast-food advertising in the media these days…)

    Describe a place that has a lot of water. ( Day 8 :swimming pool / lake )

    Describe a picnic or a meal in a park.

    ☆Describe an unforgettable lunch.

    Describe a trip that was not as good as you planned. (Day 8 :C的 a place that has been polluted.说这个很合适)

    Describe a store you like.

    Describe a concert hall.

    Describe a flat / house / home.

    Describe your favorite place in your city.

    Describe your favorite season(Day1).

     

    组织与个人

    ☆ Describe a teenager.

    ☆Describe a teacher who taught you before.

    ☆ Describe one of your childhood teachers(请注意动词全部要用过去时).

    ☆ Describe a person who speaks a foreign language.

    Describe a family that is NOT yours.

    Describe an old person.(Day 8:双语感悟)

    ☆ Describe a TV show host/presenter (《十天口语》Day 10最后和http://www.stylecareer.com/talkshow_host.shtml)

    Describe a person who lives with you.(同上)

    Describe a wealthy / rich person. (Day 8 B)

    ☆ Describe a successful person.

    ☆ Describe an artist you admire.

    Describe a famous person in a foreign country = an international celebrity. (Day 8 B)

    Describe an organization.

    Describe a workplace. ( 最简单的是说在某个organization 的part-time job或者您在上面一类话题已经准备好的某个store)

    Describe a friend.(第三部分可能问到:Who are more important to you, family members or friends?)

    ☆Describe a job you wish to do in the future./ ☆Describe an interesting job.

    Describe a person who won a competition. (p139)

    Describe an intelligent person.

    Describe a family member who you spend the most time with.

    (第三部分可能问到:Who plays more important roles in raising children, the father or the mother? How many generations live together in a typical family in China?)

    Describe a family picture.(p190 and p204)

    Describe a family friend when you were a child.(和上面的几个题完全可以共用一个答案)

    Describe a famous person.

    Describe a person you admire or still remember after many years.

    Describe a person you helped before.

    ☆ Describe a job you wish to do in the future.

    休闲娱乐

    ☆Describe an ad that helped you buy something.

    ☆Describe your favorite Chinese song/piece of Chinese music.

    (第三部分可能问到:Why do stores play background music?)

    ☆ Describe a quiz show.(完全可以参考这个http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeopardy!)

    ☆ Describe a TV program you don’t like. / Describe an interesting TV program that you can talk about with your family. (第三部分可能问到:Do you think TV programs play educational roles?)

    ☆ Describe a well-known traditional / children’s story (这里很多 http://www.chinapage.com/story/story.html)

    ☆ Describe a story that is well-known in your country.

    ☆ Describe a hobby you had when you were a child.

    Describe a book you enjoyed as a child (儿童故事书。。。)

    Describe an exciting /extreme sport. (十天口语第三版Day 8)

    ☆Describe your favorite leisure activity./ ☆Describe your favorite way to relax.

    Describe something you do to improve your health.

    Describe your favorite/ a healthy lifestyle

    Describe a vehicle you wish to own.(Day8 p185)

    ☆ Describe your favorite book. (just a biography of a famous person. p138-p145) :p)

    ☆ Describe your favorite movie / film.

    ☆Describe a song you heard when you were a child.(有个很逗的网站是专门讲这个的http://www.mamalisa.com/?t=es&p=1744&c=11)

    Describe a course you took when you were a child. (音乐课。。。)

    Describe a foreign country you wish to live in or a foreign culture you wish to experience (Day 8 Britain)

    Describe a habit. (watching that TV program)

    Describe a game you played when you were a child ( but not a sport).(Day 8:D)

    Describe an outdoor activity. Describe a creative activity you did when you were a child.

    ☆Describe an interesting news story in a newspaper/ on TV.

    Describe a performance.

    Describe a party you prepared for others. (Day 8: wedding后面的附加话题)

    Describe a photo.

    事件

    Describe something you did on your computer(用电脑工作的本质就是用软件工作,http://www.baycongroup.com/tutorials.htm 提供了最常见英语软件的基础知识大全,随便选择你想了解的软件点击进入即可)

    Describe an exciting message.

    ☆ Describe a naughty thing you did when you were a child.

    ☆ Describe an important festival people celebrate in your country.

    Describe a happy event that happened recently (Day 8 F)

    Describe a change in your life.

    Describe a piece of work that was done quickly.

    ☆Describe a piece of good news you heard on the phone or via email.

    Describe something you did when you studied a foreign language.(第三部分可能问:What are the advantages of learning a foreign language?

    What are the difficulties you met in learning a foreign language?)

    Describe a success.

    Describe an interesting speech.

    Describe an important letter you wrote to another person. (这个可以共享上文或者下文的任何一个事件的描述)

    ☆Describe a skill you wish to learn.(Day 10: Cooking)

    ☆ Describe a practical skill/ something you’re good at.

    Describe a science class(十天口语Day 10或者http://74.125.95.132/search?q=cache:49HpoQ3bya0J:www.science-class.net/+science+class&cd=1&hl=zh-CN&ct=clnk,页面左侧全都是不同的science class)

    Describe an enjoyable visit.(同上)

    Describe an important stage in life.

    Describe some advice your received before.(有很多可能性,不过最容易准备的应该是决定出国的过程中你的父母和朋友给你的建议,请参考“十大弱智话题”3)

    Describe a conversation. (同上)

    Describe a public event. (Day 8 F)

    Describe an important plan for the future.

    Describe a situation when you needed help. (同上)

    Describe a letter you received.

    Describe a sports event.

    Describe a great achievement your country has made.

    Describe a course you hope to take if you have time.

    Describe a lecture.

     

    物品

    ☆ Describe something in your home that was broken or that didn’t work.

    ☆ Describe something that was made by yourself. (The same idea or check out this link: http://www.easytourchina.com/china-specials/chinese-paper-cutting.htm) Describe something that you want to buy in the future.

    ☆ Describe a piece of electronic equipment/ an electronic device that is NOT a computer.(Day 8:E)

    ☆ Describe a gift you received before.

    ☆ Describe a gift you sent to a friend.

    Describe an old/antique thing in your family. (参考 “十大弱智话题”第八个)

    Describe something you bought but you didn’t use often. (Day 8: E)

    Describe a piece of jewellery. (http://www.clogau.co.uk/这个网站每个链接点开之后都有详细介绍…)

    ☆Describe a childhood toy.(Day 8: kite)

    Describe something that helps you learn English.(这个有很多人会说MP3,但是如果你说iPhone可以帮你学英语就肯定没有人跟你一样,Day 8)

    ☆ Describe your favorite clothes for special occasions.(Day 8:traditional clothing) (第三部分可能问到:Why do employees wear uniforms in some companies? )

    ☆ Describe a piece of clothing another person bought for you

    Describe a gift you gave another person.

    Describe a painting.

    Describe a sculpture.

     

    弱智卡片(Day 10)

    ☆ Describe something that you were late for. (十大弱智话题的第1个)

    Describe a traffic jam.(第三部分可能问到:

    What do you think of children driving? Well, it would be reaaaaaaaally risky for average kids to drive alone. Maybe it’s fun if their parents are with them.But anyway, the risk is soooooo real…What are the causes of traffic jams?

    Will traffic jams be even more important in the future?)

    Describe something that made you wait for a long time.(同上)

    ☆Describe a good law.

    ☆Describe a person who’s good at cooking.(Day 10)

    (第三部分可能问到:Do you think it’s important for kids to learn cooking skills? Yup. They will be more independent if they do. And it would definitely be more economical than going to restaurants if they could cook meals for themselves… Do you like home-cooked food? )

    Describe a shop.

    Describe an unhappy shopping experience.

    Describe the food you ever had that had the worst taste.

    ☆ Describe a restaurant (见Day 10(下)的第3题餐馆)

    ☆Describe a place where you usually have lunch.

    Describe a plan you made. (第三部分可能问到:Why do people have goals?)

     

     
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    110205 Music List 

    Four Seasons in One Day

    Beth Rowley-It’s nobody’s fault but mine

    Ace Enders And A Million Different People

    Club 8 – Football Kids

    From A Shell

    Vika Jigulina – Stereo Love

    This Ain’t A Love Song

    Hollywood‘s Not America

    北京刺猬:我的淘气童年 Toy and 61Festival

    白俄罗斯的摇滚力量:Hair Peace Salon

     
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    Tags: 为什么起床后不能收邮件?   

    为什么起床后不能收邮件?

    作者:Sid Savara

    译者:阮一峰

    原文网址:http://sidsavara.com/personal-development/do-not-check-email-in-the-morning

    英国作家Richard Whately说过:

    “在早晨浪费一小时,你得花一整天来弥补。”(Lose an hour in the morning, and you will be all day hunting for it.)

    每天早晨,你不应该把收邮件当做起床后的第一件事。我有七个理由证明这一点。

    一、它会降低效率

    对电子邮件毫不关心,其实是一种福气。如果你手头有重要的事情急需完成,我只有四个字送给你:”别收邮件。”

    你一起床,就用30–45分钟,集中精力去做最重要的事情,然后再去收电子邮件。如果你忍得住,不妨等待更长的时间。我经常是午饭后才打开邮箱。

    你知道吗?只要对其他事情毫不关心,你就能把所有精力集中于手头的工作。

    不收电子邮件,你就不会知道某地又发生了火灾,或者某个品牌在搞特卖,或者某个好友推荐的好玩的视频。

    你得到的任何新的信息,都能使你分心。顺便说一句,这也是为什么我往往早上不看任何报纸、电视、不听广播的原因。我不想分心。你控制不了别人,但是至少能够控制自己集中注意力。

    二、它不属于你的待办事项

    如果你知道自己最重要的事情是什么,或者知道每天应该完成的事情是什么,那么起床后首先就去做。

    要是这时你去收邮件,很可能你会做别人让你做的事。每当你打开一封邮件,你就应该衡量一下,是你自己的事情更重要,还是别人的事情更重要。在现实中,又有多少人能够看到别人的要求,却坚持去做自己的事呢?

    如果坚持不住,那么最终你忙忙碌碌的,都是别人的任务(即使那只是回复邮件、提供一点意见),而不是你自己的任务。

    说穿了,打开邮箱,那一封封的电子邮件都是别人给你安排的代办事项。

    你的时间到底属于谁?你自己,还是某个给你写信的人?

    三、它是缺乏目标的借口

    我来问你:为什么你每天早上第一件事是收邮件?

    答案往往是因为你不知道你该干什么。

    每个人免不了都有这样的时候。但是如果你频繁查看邮箱,你应该警惕了,这是一个信号,表明你已经有点偏离方向了。

    我的意见是,你必须去做的重要任务,应该放在第一位,别让查看邮件、清理书桌之类的琐事分你的心。如果你每天早晨习惯性地打开邮箱,真正的问题倒还不是你浪费了查看邮件的时间,而是你不知道自己的高优先性任务是什么,所以才会去做查看邮件那样的低优先性任务。

    当你不知道什么事情最优先的时候,你把查看邮件当做自己的当务之急,无法完成那些真正紧要的事情就是你的代价。

    四、被动与主动

    查看邮件的时候,最好的结果是正好收到一封非常重要的邮件,不早不晚,然后你立刻采取相应的行动。但是,这样的情况很常见吗?非常少见。

    更常见的情况有两种。一种比较”好”的情况是,你没有收到任何新邮件,也就没有什么新的事情需要做。但是,不管怎样,这时你浪费了检查邮件的时间,你可以减少查看的频率。

    但是,这种情况有多常见呢?你遇到的往往是一种较坏的情况:你为自己找来了更多的事需要做。因为你在”收邮件”,所以你开始回复它们,浪费了你本该用来做别的事情的时间。你不是”主动地”为自己设置一个日程表,新收到的电子邮件迫使你”被动地”行动,迫使你忽略了它们真正的优先性。

    我宁愿主动,宁愿去做那些对自己重要的事情,而不管收件箱里有什么紧急的或者排在前面的邮件。

    别再浪费你的一举一动,你要多做生产力比较高的行动。

    五、寻找借口

    就我而言,如果我盲目地打开邮箱(或者Twitter、Facebook、以及类似的浪费时间的网络行为),我经常不是在查找重要的东西,而是在寻找借口,不去做那些我必须做的事情。

    我在寻找理由,我想告诉自己为什么那些事可以拖到以后做。(”我必须帮助张三写完他的报告”,或者”我必须回答李四的问题”。)

    不要落入这种陷阱。不要让收邮件变成一种你放纵自己的借口。

    如果你手头正在做一件事,那就别查看邮件。承认吧,你有不得不做的事情,那就去做它。

    六、没法设置时间限制

    开会是一种很浪费时间的行为,但是大多数情况下,你至少知道会议需要开多久。

    如果我问你,打开邮箱后,你将在邮件上花费多少时间。你很有可能无法回答,或者低估了耗费的时间。

    查看邮件只需要一分钟,问题在于你会被随之而来的事情拖住,无法知道完成那些事情要耗费多久。事实上,我曾经在起床后打开邮箱,结果就陷在里面了,直到午饭时才得闲。

    一天之中,你效率最高的时间是有限的。别让邮件把你拖住,耗费掉你宝贵的时间。

    七、它带来期待

    许多人说:”我不得不收邮件!别人期待尽快收到我的回复!”

    首先,我不相信这种说法。确实有一些尽快回复的要求,但是它们可能远不如你想的那么紧急。其次,就算尽快回复是唯一的选择,你不妨问自己为什么会这样。

    你知道吗,为什么别人期待你尽快做出回复?

    原因可能是,你总是每天一醒来就回复邮件,你自己造成了别人的期望。

    你越频繁地查看邮件,人们就越相信你会很快地回复。你不再每天早早地查看邮件,人们也就不再期望你会尽快回复了。

    好的,我知道说来容易做来难。别担心,坚持一两个星期,就没人会对你有奢望了。

    如果你”必须”收邮件……

    某些读者可能会抗议:”不收邮件,我怎么与团队保持联系!”,或者”在我做出下一步之前,我必须得到反馈意见。”我完全理解这些想法,有时我也盼着收到某些重要的反馈,我也会在起床后快速地收一下邮件。

    我想说的是:如果你必须这样做,那就限制自己只查看一部分邮件。我推荐使用下面的规则:

      * 只看有没有你正在找的东西。最重要的,别看计划外的东西。带有目的地去看,有没有一封特定的人发给你的特定的邮件。

      * 过滤那些不重要的邮件。一个好方法是,如果邮件来自一个陌生的地址,那就留到以后看。

      * 设置一个时间限制。规定自己只能用5分钟收邮件,只找自己想要的那个信息,在行动之前就制定好退出策略。邮箱还没打开的时候,你就知道以下情况应该怎么办:1)那封邮件已经到了;2)它还没到;3)你想要的信息不够完整。不管怎样,别被动地做出反应,而要主动地想好针对不同的结果,做出怎样的行为。

    现在,你可以停止阅读这篇文章了,去做那些对你重要的事。不管你做什么,只要收邮件不要太频繁就行了。

     
  • Watchalife 7:59 pm on January 24, 2011 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: 北大金融学本科课程   

    , 数理统计 张俊妮 07金融 统计 英文授课
    Probability and Statistics, Revised Edition by Xiangzhong Fang, Ligang Lu, Dongfeng Li, Higher Education Press, 2005.
    Reference books:
    陈希孺(2000),《概率论与数理统计》,中国科学技术大学出版社。
    茆诗松(1999),贝叶斯统计,中国统计出版社。

    2, 证券投资学 赵龙凯 06金融
    Bodie, Zvi, Alex Kane, and Alan Marcus, Investments, McGraw-Hill – Irwin, 5th Edition, or later edition. (Note: there is a Chinese version available.)
    References and readings:Recommended readings: the Wall Street Journal, Sina Finance, etc…

    3, 金融计量经济学 王志诚 06金融
    参考:1,Introductory Econometrics –A modern approach. Jeffrey M. Wooldridge, 2003.。
    2,Applied Econometrics –Time Series, Walter Enders, 2004..
    3,Time Series Analysis, James, Helmilton, 1994

    4, 实证金融 张峥 06金融
    暂时没有阅读书籍 17篇实证研究论文

    5, 国际财务管理 徐信忠 06金融 英文授课
    《国际金融》, 单忠东、綦建红, 北京大学出版社, 2005 and 2006 .
    参考:课上告知

    6, 投资银行 Michael pettis 06金融 英文授课
    Most required readings will be posted on the class website. In my book is China Vulnerable. The Causes and Consequences of Financial Fragility (published in Chinese by Tsinghua University Press, June 2003)

    7, 金融中的数学方法 刘勇、周曙林 07金融 外聘教师
    《金融学中的数学》,史树中,高等教育出版社,2006
    参考书目
    《金融经济学十讲》,史树中,上海人民出版社,2004
    《数学与经济》,史树中,大连理工大学出版设,2008(再版)
    钱敏平、叶俊, 随机数学, 高等教育出版社。
    龚光鲁, 随机微分方程及其应用概要,清华大学出版社。
    周蜀林,偏微分方程,北京大学出版社。
    姜礼尚,期权定价的数学模型和方法, 高等教育出版社。

    8, 金融市场与金融机构 张圣平 07金融
    教材:1.Madura, Jeff,Financial markets and institutions, 6th edition, 北京大学出版社,2003。
    2.曹凤岐,贾春新,《金融市场与金融机构》,北京大学出版社,2002。
    3,Peter S. Ross, Milton H. Marquis, Money and Capital Markets (金融市场学)(10th Edition),机械工业出版社,2009。
    参考书目:
    1. 安东尼•桑德斯, 马西娅•米伦•科尼特, 《金融市场与金融机构》,王中华译, 人民邮电出版社,2006。
    2. Kidwell, David S. Financial institutions, markets, and money,9th edition, Hoboken, NJ : Wiley & Sons, c2006.
    3. 彼得•S•罗斯著,陆军主译,《货币与资本市场》, 中国人民大学出版社,2006。
    4英格•沃尔特, 罗伊•C•史密斯著, 黄金老, 曾超, 刘伟译,《全球资本市场与银行业》,中国人民大学出版社, 2006。
    5,Fabozzi, Frank J. and Modigliani, Franco, Capital Markets: Institutions and Instruments, 3th edition. Prentice Hall, New Jersey, 2002.
    6,R. 格伦•哈伯德(R. Glenn Hubbard),《货币、金融体系与经济》(Money, the Financial System and the Economy, 5th Edition),机械工业出版社,2008。
    7,[加]约翰•赫尔(John C. Hull) 著, 王勇 译,《期权与期货市场基本原理》(原书第6版),机械工业出版社,2008。
    8,弗雷德里克 S.米什金(Frederic S.Mishkin),斯坦利 G.埃金斯(Stanley G.Eakins),《金融市场与金融机构》(原书第5版),机械工业出版社,2008。

    9, 财务报表分析 姜国华 07金融
    《财务报表分析与证券投资》姜国华著,北京大学出版社,2008年9月出版
    《财务报表分析与证券定价》第二版,斯蒂芬-佩因曼(Stephen Penman)著,刘力、陆正飞译;中国财政经济出版社

    10, 保险学 姜万军 07金融
    教材与参考书目
    1. E. J. Vaughan, T. M. Vaughan: “Fundamentals of Risk and Insurance”, 8th edition, John Wiley & Sons. Inc. 1999。 该书的中文翻译版:“危险原理与保险(第八版)”,中国人民大学出版社,2002年
    2. 孙祁祥,保险学(第三版),北京大学出版社,2005年

    11, 计算机语言 陈宝福 06金融
    教材:自编讲义、ppt文件
    参考书:C程序设计 谭浩强 著 清华大学出版社

    12, 金融衍生工具 王东 06金融
    Options, Futures and Other Derivatives, sixth edition. John C. Hull. Prentice Hall.
    参考书目:金融工程案例(Cases in Financial Engineering: Applied Studies of Financial Innovation),中国人民大学出版社,1999。
    John C. Hul, Options, Futures, & Other Derivatives. Prentice-Hall, Inc, 2009-.
    Galitz, Lawrence, Financial Engineering: Tools and Techniques to Manage Financial Risk,London,Pitman Publishing,1994.
    John F. Marshall and Vipul K.Bansal, Financial Engineer, A complete guide to financial innovation, New York Institute of Finance, 1992

    13, 并购与公司管理 徐信忠 金融 停开
    Robert M. Grant Contemporary Strategy Analysis – Sixth Edition
    Blackwell Publishing
    William Gole & Joseph Morris Mergers & Acquisitions Wiley
    参考:Li Jin Harvard Business School Case Study on the Focus/Framedia merger
    Harvard Business School
    Various Articles and public information regarding the BHP attempt to takeover RTZ (same as April 2008)

    14, 公司财务管理 田利辉 07金融 金融 英文授课
    Jonathan Berk and Peter DeMarzo, 2006, Corporate Finance, Addison Wesley.
    Brealey and Myers, Principles of Corporate Finance, 7th edition, 2003, McGraw-Hill.
    参考:1,Aswath Damodaran, 2001, Corporate Finance: Theory and Practice, 2nd , Wiley.
    2,Richard A. Brealey, Stewart C. Myers, and Alan J. Marcus, 2007, Fundamentals of Corporate Finance, 5th ed., McGRAW-HILL.
    3, Stephen A. Ross, Randolph W. Westerfield, and Bradford D. Jordan, 2008, Fundamentals of Corporate Finance, 8th ed., McGRAW-HILL.

    15, 货币金融学 张圣平07金融 金融
    Mishkin, F. S. The Economics of Money, Banking, and Financial Markets(第7版),北京大学出版社,培生教育出版集团,2002。(中文版由中国人民大学出版社出版)
    参考书:1,姚长辉 著,《货币银行学》(第三版),北京大学出版社,2005。
    2,易纲、吴有昌(1999),《货币银行学》,上海人民出版社。
    3,[美]R.格伦•哈伯德(R.Gelenn Hubbard),《货币、金融体系与经济》,机械工业出版社,2008。
    4,约瑟夫•斯蒂格利茨 布鲁斯•格林沃尔德 著,《通往货币经济学的新范式》,中信出版社,2005。
    5,凯文•多德,《竞争与金融――金融与货币经济学新解》,中国人民大学出版社,2004。
    拉古拉迈•拉詹 路易吉•津加莱斯 著,《从资本家手中拯救资本主义》,中信出版社,2004

    Other:
    16, 计量经济学 黄涛 公选课
    平狄克、鲁宾费尔德,《计量经济模型与经济预测》,机械工业出版社,1999。
    参考书目:格林,《经济计量分析》,中国社会科学出版社

    17, 微观经济学 周黎安 08全校通选
    Intermediate Microeconomics by Hal Varian and its pretty new edition has a Chinese version (2006).
    reference: Microeconomics by Robert Pindyck and Daniel Rubinfeld and Microeconomic Theory by Walter Nicholson.

    18, 宏观经济学 龚六堂、张庆华 07全体 应经
    Macroeconomics, 5e. ( by G. Mankiw)
    参考书目
    Macroeconomics, (by Abel A. B. and B. S. Bernanke)
    Macroeconomics, (by Barro Robert)
    Macroeconomic Theory and Policy, (by Branson W.)
    Advanced Macroeconomics, (by Paul Romer)

    19, 宏观经济与健康投资 刘国恩 全校公选课
    作者译者
    书名
    出版社
    出版年

    教材:Jeffrey D. Sachs commissioned by WHO Macroeconomics and Health World Health Organization 2001
    参考:Sherman Folland, Allen Goodmam, and Miron Stano(王健 孟庆跃 译) The Economics of Health and Health Care
    (卫生经济学) Prentice Hall
    (经济科学出版社) 2003

    20, 财务会计 李琦 伍利娜 大类平台课 经济中心+经院
    《会计学:教程与案例——财务会计分册》(英文版,原书第12版),安东尼、霍金斯、麦钱特,机械工业出版社,2007
    参考:1.《财务会计》(英文版,原书第5版),韦安特、基索、金梅尔,机械工业出版社,2007
    2.《会计学:教程与案例——财务会计分册》(中文翻译版,原书第11版),安东尼、霍金斯、麦钱特,机械工业出版社,2004
    3.《财务会计 概念、方法与应用》(中文翻译版,原书第10版),斯蒂克尼、威尔,机械工业出版社,2005

    21, 中级财务会计 李琦 07会计 金融选修
    Intermediate Accounting,第12版,Kieso/Weygandt/Warfield, 机械工业出版社影印版
    1.《中级财务会计学》(第二版)(上、下),葛家澍主编,中国人民大学出版社(2004)
    2.《中级会计学》(第三版),J•戴维•斯派斯兰德,詹姆斯•F•塞普, 劳伦斯•A•托马斯尼著,中国人民大学出版社

    22, 公司财务案例 Douglas 全院选修 英文授课新增课
    Course text: Principles of Corporate Finance, Brealey and Myers, any recent edition.
    All case material will be distributed in class.

    23, 企业伦理 06金融

     
  • Watchalife 8:31 pm on January 23, 2011 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: 交易之道   

    交易之道,
    刚者易折。
    惟有至阴至柔,
    方可纵横天下。
    天下柔弱者莫如水,
    然上善若水。

    成功,
    等于小的亏损,
    加上大大小小的利润,多次累积。
    做到不出现大亏损很简单,
    以生存为第一原则,
    当出现妨碍这一原则的危险时,
    抛弃其他一切原则。
    因为,
    无论你过去曾经,
    有过多少个100%的优秀业绩,
    现在只要损失一个100%
    你就一无所有了。
    交易之道,
    守不败之地,
    攻可赢之敌。
    100万亏损50%就成了50万,
    50万增值到100万却要盈利100%才行。
    每一次的成功,
    只会使你迈出一小步。
    但每一次失败,
    却会使你向后倒退一大步。
    从帝国大厦的第一层走到顶楼,
    要一个小时。
    但是从楼顶纵身跳下,
    只要30秒,
    就可以回到楼底。
      
    在交易中,
    永远有你想不到的事情,
    会让你发生亏损。
    需不需要止损的最简单方法,
    就是问自己一个问题:
    假设现在还没有建立仓位,
    是否还愿意在此价位买进。
    答案如果是否定,
    马上卖出,
    毫不犹豫。

    逆势操作是失败的开始。
    不应该对抗市场,
    或尝试击败他。
    没有必要比市场精明。
    趋势来时,
    应之,随之。
    无趋势时,
    观之,静之。
    等待趋势最终明朗后,
    再动手也不迟。
    这样会失去少量的机会,
    但却赢得了资金的安全。

    你的目标必须与市场保持一致,
    顺应市场的趋势。
    如果你与市场保持一致,
    利润自会滚滚而来。
    如果你看错了趋势,
    就得使用古老而可靠的保护伞——止蚀单。
    这就是趋势和利润的关系。

    操盘成功的两项最基本规则就是:
    停损和持长。
    一方面,
    截断亏损,控制被动。
    另一方面,
    盈利趋势未走完,
    就不轻易出场,
    要让利润充分增长。

    多头市场上,
    大多数股票可以不怕暂时被套。
    因为下一波上升会很快让人解套,
    甚至获利。
    这时候,
    买对了还要懂得安坐不动,
    不管风吹浪打,胜似闲庭信步。
    交易之道的关键,
    就是持续掌握优势。
      
    快速认赔,
    是空头市场交易中的一个重要原则。
    当头寸遭受损失时,
    切忌加码再搏。
    在空头市场中,
    不输甚至少输就是赢。
    多做多错,
    少做少错,
    不做不错。
    在一个明显的空头市场,
    如果因为害怕遭受小损失而拒绝出局,
    迟早会遭受大损失。
    一只在中长期下降趋势里挣扎的股票,
    任何时候卖出都是对的。
    哪怕是卖在了最低价上。
    被动持有等待它的底部,
    这种观点很危险,
    因为它可能根本没有底。
      
    学会让资金分批入场。
    一旦首次入场头寸发生亏损,
    第一原则就是不能加码。
    最初的损失往往就是最小的损失,
    正确的做法就是应该直接出场。
    如果行情持续不利于首次进场头寸,
    就是差劲的交易,
    不管成本多高,
    立即认赔。
    希望在底部或头部一次搞定的人,
    总会拿到烫手山芋。

    熊市下跌途中,
    钱多也不能赢。
    机构常常比散户死的难看。
    小资金没有战略建仓的必要,
    不需要为来年未知行情提前做准备。
    不需要和主力患难到底。
    明显下跌趋势中,
    20-30点的小反弹,
    根本不值得兴奋和参与。

    有所不为才能有所为。
    行动多并不一定就效果好。
    有时什么也不做,
    就是一种最好的选择。
    不要担心错失机会,
    善猎者必善等待。
    在没有大机会的时候,
    要安静的如一块石头。
    交易之道在于,
    耐心等待机会,
    耐心等待最有利的风险/报酬比,
    耐心掌握机会。

    熊市里,
    总有一些机构,
    拿着别人的钱,
    即使只有万分之几的希望,
    也拼命找机会挣扎,
    以求突围解困。
    我们拿着的是自己的钱,
    要格外珍惜才对。
    不要去盲目测底,
    更不要盲目炒底。
    要知道,
    底部和顶部,
    都是最容易赔大钱的区域。

    当你感到困惑时,
    不要作出任何交易决定。
    不需要勉强进行交易,
    如果没有适当的行情。
    没有胜算较高的机会,
    不要勉强进场。

    股市如战场,
    资金就是你的士兵。
    在大方向正确的情况下,
    才能从容地投入战斗。
    要先胜而后求战,
    不能先战而后求胜。

    投机的核心就是尽量回避不确定走势,
    只在明显的涨势中下注。
    并且在有相当把握的行动之前,
    再给自己买一份保险(止损位摆脱出局),
    以防自己的主观错误。

    做交易,
    必须要拥有二次重来的能力,
    包括资金上,
    信心上和机会上。
    你可以被市场打败,
    但千万不能被市场消灭。

    我们来到这个市场是为了赚钱,
    但是这个市场却不是全自动提款机。
    进入股市,
    就是要抢劫那些时刻准备抢劫你的人。
    股票投机讲究时机和技巧,
    机会不是天天有,
    即使有,
    也不是人人都能抓住。
    要学会分析自己擅长把握的机会,
    以己之长,攻彼之短。
    有机会就捞一票,
    没机会就观望,离开。
    如果自己都不清楚自己擅长什么,
    就不要轻举妄动。
    与鳄共泳有风险,
    入市捞钱需谨慎。

    做交易,
    最忌讳使用压力资金。
    资金一旦有了压力,
    心态就会扭曲。
    你会因为市场上的正常波动而惊慌出局,
    以至事后才发现自己当初处于非常有利的位置。
    你也会因为受制于资金的使用时间,
    在没有机会的时候孤注一掷,
    最终满盘皆输。

    许多人勤奋好学,
    开口有江恩,闭口艾略特,
    说对了,到处炫耀,
    亏大了,以为自己学艺不精,加倍钻研。
    时间之窗,窗越开越多,
    波浪理论,钱越数越少,
    最后把自己弄得稀里糊涂,
    自今也清醒不过来。
    要知道,
    所有的理论和技术都是在尊重市场趋势的前提下才能运用的好,
    如果总是长期挨套,
    只能说明你连股市中最基本的牛熊趋势都没分清,
    看盘看得再精,数字无限神奇,
    也不能改变你失败的命运。
    即使再出现一个牛熊轮回,
    套牢的依然还是你。
    还满口索罗斯,巴菲特呢,
    瞎掰!

    资金管理是战略,
    买卖股票是战术,
    具体价位是战斗。
    在十次交易中,
    即使六次交易你失败了,
    但只要把这六次交易的亏损,
    控制在整个交易本金20%的损失内,
    剩下的四次成功交易,
    哪怕用三次小赚,
    去填补整个交易本金20%的亏损,
    剩下一次大赚,
    也会令你的收益不低。

    你无法控制市场的走向,
    所以不需要在自己控制不了的形势中浪费精力和情绪。
    不要担心市场将出现怎样的变化,
    要担心的是你将采取怎样的对策回应市场的变化。
    判断对错并不重要,
    重要的是当你正确时,你获得了多大的利润,
    当你错误的时候,你能够承受多少亏损。
    入场之前,
    静下心来多想想,
    想想自己有多少专业技能支撑自己在市场中拼杀,
    想想自己的心态是否可以禁得住大风大浪的起伏跌宕,
    想想自己口袋中有限的资金是否应付得了无限的机会和损失。
    炒股如出海,避险才安全。
    海底的沉船都有一堆航海图。
    最重要的交易成功因素,
    并不在于用的是哪一套规则,
    而在于你的自律功夫。

    时间决定一切。
    总设计师和林副主席的不同故事告诉我们,
    人生并不只是谋略之争,
    某种程度上也是时间和生命的竞争。
    巴非特多活10年,
    每年哪怕只有5%的持续盈利,
    其财富的总增长,
    也足以笑傲天下。

     
  • Watchalife 8:30 pm on January 23, 2011 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: 理财习惯   

    1.人的平均寿命越来越长,而经济寿命却越来越短。所以赚钱要趁早。

    2.挣多少钱不是目标,“何时”才能获得经济上的自由,才是人们所关注的。

    3.股票,14年平均75倍的回报。

    4.储蓄只是一种能创造“种子钱”的手段。

    5.趁着年轻努力工作,这是对人生负责的一种态度。

    6.只知道努力工作的人失去了赚钱的时间。

    7.要成为富人,就要有为了“投资”而努力工作的思想

    8.成为富豪的关键不在于挣了多少,而在于支出的合理性。
    财富是依靠时间创出来的,一次失去的时间绝对不可能再追回来

    9.负债也是一种资产
    对于干事业的人来说,只要合理地管理债务,就能将它转变为一种非常有用的投资本钱。

    10.钱最大的特性在于流通性,让钱活跃地流通起来,创造出新的附回价值,这才成就了财富。

    11.亏本没有亏到本钱的份上,这就是事业。
    成功投资的基本原则:稳定性、回报率、周转率。

    12.由于钱是我们见得着,摸得到,因而对其鞠而躬之,而风险见不着,也摸来到,所以很容易被忽视。这就是人性

    13.股票投资不是靠买卖来赚钱的,而是靠持有来赚钱的。

     
  • Watchalife 5:14 am on December 17, 2010 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: 郑钱花   

    宝贝来到这世界的时候,
    你知道爸爸有多高兴吗?
    那天我请了我们很多的朋友,
    还给你起了这个好听的名字,
    从此以后你就叫郑钱花,
    钱是挣钱的钱,
    花是花钱的花,
    你的爸爸我是个穷光蛋啦!
    你将来一切全靠自己啦。
    宝贝来这世界的时候,
    你知道妈妈有多幸福吗?
    她为你织了件漂亮的毛衣,
    我想你穿在身上肯定很美!
    但是我的宝贝,你知道吗?
    现在的钱有多么难挣啊!
    养一个孩子多么不容易呀!
    计划生育还有什么必要吗?
    伟大的祖国她超有钱呐!
    四万个亿跟我有蛋关系呢?
    骄傲的GDP他噌噌的长啊!
    能为我换来几包尿不湿吗?
    宝贝,你就叫郑钱花,
    爸爸我爱你却无能为力呀!
    所以以后全靠你自己啦!
    爸爸我只有祝福你啦!
    好好的成长,可别生病呀!
    努力学习才能省掉赞助费呀!
    长大了工作自己挣钱花,
    希望你能过得比我好哇!

     
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